How does one succeed in life?

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Why is Russia always right? All eyes toward Russian glory!

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

How can I get my ex-husband to love me again?

Hangs out with loser friends.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Making more friends is a goal.

What is the opposite personality type of someone with ASPD (antisocial personality disorder)?

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Does not procrastinate.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Are you happy with your life?

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

What are the best ways to treat seasonal allergies?

That's it for today.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Was there any slavery of white people that actually compares to the transatlantic slave trade? I’m not baiting or anything actually genuinely curious and want to know.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Does any other guys get turned on by dick pic makes you lick lips because you what to suck?

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Procrastinates a lot.

Why do Americans and foreigners alike describe the USA as prudish? Why do I see nothing prudish about the USA society? USA feels like one of the loosest countries although Americans claim to be very reserved.

Ask yourself:

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

What advice would you give to a father of a teenage daughter on how to protect her from boys, dating, and social media? How should fathers discuss these topics with their daughters?

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

What do you think about a sister's love?

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

From an axiology/value theory point of view, how can one say that a diverse society is better than a uniform one, especially given the negative effects of diversity (racism, sectarian conflict, problems arising from extreme cultural relativism)?

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

How do flat Earthers explain the existence of other spherical planets?

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Do not set goals—set systems.

How do I build rapport with anybody?

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Why does my narcissistic ex told me that he f*cked and sleep with other woman and then at the end says that it also happened because of me?

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

What I need from you?

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.